Loneliness Busters for Soul Mates & Twin Flames

The goal of our spiritual path is to awaken to the larger part of us, the part of us that has always existed and will exist forevermore and that’s our souls. And I believe that one of the reasons why we have chosen this Earth realm to experience life, is for the sheer challenge of balancing the eternal nature of our souls with the finite nature of our human-ness. Our human-ness is the discoverer, the seeker, the unfulfilled, the always wanting more aspect of ourselves; it’s where the ego resides. And although the ego has gotten a bad rap, it is does hold its own unique genius, for the ego acts as a part of the engine for our evolution. The ego or the human-ness of who are keeps us living, and expanding the possibilities of what we can do as spiritual beings physically focused on this earth plane.

It can go without saying that most of the world has limited its existence to the world of ego or the physically focused parts of us. There is this pervasive drive to dominate, manipulate, compete, possess and force things to happen. Most of the world is asleep to their Divine nature, the Being-ness of being a Human Being. And since the Being-ness is directly connected to the Universal Laws of Life, it is safe to say, that when we live only in the parts of ourselves that is physically focused, or human, we essentially are acting against the Laws of Life.

There are so many illusionary props around us that blind us to the entire truth of who we are. In every comer of the planet there are many mechanisms that encourage us to remain out of synch with the Laws that govern our very lives. Our sleepiness and miseducation has created an unnecessary turmoil within our minds and emotions that can be instantly cured by stepping into our spiritual nature our Being-ness.

Since our dominate intent in incarnating in this life is to awaken and live from our Soul Mate and Twin Flame consciousness we are not only challenged to identify the illusions that are around us, but also the dysfunctional behavioral and emotional patterns within us; and further, to learn how to balance or eliminate the patterns that keeps us out of synch with the natural order of life, of our eternal being.

The Soul Mate and Twin Flame ‘Obstacle Course’ are really not obstacles at all to our Spirits, only to the ego or the physically focused parts of us. Our Higher Selves brings us through many of these obstacles that challenges us to take a second look at the illusions we have lived and created within, so that we could learn how to use the mechanisms of our physically focused self, along with the eternal-ness of our being to create an authentic life, a life that is expressed from who we truly are, not what we have been programmed to believe.

The most obvious ‘obstacles’ to the physically-focused Soul Mate or Twin Flame is the illusion of Distance and Time. And once one buys into the concept of Distance and Times, it creates within that person a host of dysfunctional behavioral and emotional reactions, but the top three of these dysfunctions are: Loneliness, Anger and Lack of Appreciation.

The truth of the matter to Distance and Time, is that they are relative states. BUT, in actuality, time and distance exists all at once, in the NOW. It is true that our brain functions solely from the human aspect, is linear, so we cannot totally dismiss time and distance as presented by the material world, they have become tools of measurement for our existence, but from the soul’s perspective, all is lived within the eternal now. The soul feels no angst that the illusion of distance and time creates because it is forever in the now, awaiting us to merge with it! And this is true for all of the “obstacles’ that Soul Mates and Twin Flames are being challenged by. Once you are able to come into alignment with the eternal nature of your being-ness or soul, then the pain of loneliness, anger and lack of appreciation will be transformed into appreciation, gratitude, connection, and joy. This is the Soul Mate and Twin Flame path to higher consciousness.

These states of being DOES take practice in order for them to become a dominate part of your vibration. Here are a few things that you can do to shift into Higher Consciousness or to come into alignment with your soul.

Practice the Present: Spend at least 10 minutes reflecting on your present moment, the eternal NOW. Right now, all of your needs are met or you would not be alive. ah yes, we all have never ending bills and obligations, but when you really think about each of them, they are all past or future orientated, and NONE of them have anything to do with sustaining our eternal nature, none of them! So reflect on the Now, the present moment, and instantly our feelings of being alone evaporates because we realize that we do not NEED anything to exist as we are, in the presence of our SOULS. Next the anger will dissipate, because you will realize that nothing or no one can keep you away from your beloved that even his or her physically separating themselves from you is an illusion, because the telepathic connection makes it very evident to us that our souls are eternal, connected and cuts through all illusions. So reflecting for at least 10 minutes on the truth of your eternal nature, the now moment, will sober up most of the dysfunctional behavioral and emotional patterns.

Create a Top 10 List: When we are lost in Time Consciousness the physically focused part of us becomes driven to do and have. We become fixated on the tangibles and the need to control. Unknowingly, we overlook the things that we already have and the things that are within our control. Therefore creating a Top 10 List of the things that we appreciate about our lives and the things that we DO have control over helps us to integrate the joyful beingness of our soul. The state of Appreciation is a very high vibration, close to the vibration of love, in this state, the view of your life becomes expansive and purposeful. Also in this state we send out a strong vibration into Cosmic Mind that will in turn reflect back to us more things to appreciate!

Practicing the Present and creating a Top 10 List, at first blush may seem to be too simple to be effective, but the truth is, all things soul-based are simple; It’s living in the illusion that’s hard and complex. Again, this is not a one-shot cure all illusion exercise, seeing self clearly and operating from your authentic nature take plenty of practice. We have been deeply ingrained into the illusion, and each time you bring your anxieties and fears to this exercise, you will uncover more and more of the illusion you have been living under and discover more of the beauty of your eternal being.

In conclusion, let us remember that the nature of our connection is soul-based, and any movement or progress has to take place from the soul-level. These so called ‘obstacles’ that we are facing that brings about dysfunctional thoughts, beliefs and behaviors are all illusions, they stand before us as a challenge for us to break pass the illusions and live from the place in us, in all of us, that is already whole, joyful and knowing, it’s each and every one of our paths, to mate with our own soul.