Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Empower Your Life!

When our beloveds pull away for whatever reason, at first blush, it feels completely heartbreaking. For some it feels like a gaping wound that we cannot patch up on our own, and for some, it's hard to pull our focus on the rest of our lives, yet the rest of our lives begin to fall apart.

It's extremely important for us to keep the focus on building and maintaining the health and wellness of our ENTIRE LIFE. This is tricky, especially when we feel so deprived in the relationship area. We mistakenly think, that because we are not sharing our lives with someone we love and someone who loves us back, that we have no love to draw from, and that our lives are meaningless and not worth our effort. We also begin to take on the 'when 'they' come to me' attitude. This is a trap that some fall into time and time again, placing their lives on hold for some unfocused future and underpowered idea.

Relationships are evolving toward empowerment for both the individual and the unit as a whole. The former imbalance dependency that relationships have been built upon is slowly fading away. Soul Mates and Twin flame connections are all about empowerment, self accountability and responsibility. We must slowly release the disenfranchised relationship paradigm that breeds unhealthy dependency, anger, irresponsibly and resentment we must begin to turn towards the high characteristic of our Higher Selves, trust and flow within this very abundant and compassionate Universe.

Empowering our lives is not merely the actions we take, but a philosophy that we live. It means creating the necessary opportunities for us to thrive pass our limitations. it means taking full responsibility for the details of OWN LIFE and supporting others in a healthy balanced way. This philosophy has not been taught to most of us, so we will find ourselves going through a series of unlearning and adopting a new healthier approach to living and relating to others.

There are many resources and support mechanisms that can help us facilitate empowerment in our lives. I strongly suggest that we approach this change on several fronts. We can do our personal research and devotional practice, along with participating In a group or community environment or individualized therapy or coaching to help us around those really stubborn ingrained counterproductive beliefs.

let us keep in mind that we did not enter into this spiritual connection to conform to a relationship paradigm that is dying and has cuse so many suffering and pain, but we are in this to set the tone of how unconditional love can be applied first towards ourselves and those in our lives.

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Wednesday, December 1, 2010