Help, my soul mate is haunting me.

“Keesha, what the hell is wrong with me. Why can’t I get them off my mind?” I hear this complaint over and over again when I work with my clients. My clients, whether they are with their mates or not can feel their presence with them at every moment of the day, so much so that when they feel their mates energy pull away from them, it’s a feeling of deep lose and depression. So what is this thrilling and sometimes annoying invasion going on?

To fully embrace the answer I am about to give, you must first accept that we are first energetic beings. We have always existed as energy, but have reduced apart of our energetic bodies to a dense enough level to have outer bodies for the purpose of having a human experience. But in truth we are energetic beings. With each level of knowledge that we obtain as we practice and we walk our spiritual paths, the veil that blocks out the nonphysical world from the physical slowly erodes.

The soul mate connection is first an energetic bonding, and the bond works like an umbilical cord linking you to your counterpart. This cord is the passage way where all information can travel from you and your mate. It’s an invisible cord to most eyes, but a very good clairvoyant can see it clearly. Information that usually travels through this cord is usually of the telepathic nature, and once the information is received from either party, the information can take form through many ways. The message can be songs, memories, feelings and a knowing.

See, our ethereal bodies are taking front and center stage. We as soul mates are learning how to become fluent with the language and workings of the non physical world. This ascension, that is raising our frequencies, is also bringing us back to our most pure state of being, and that is the spirit. We are now on the journey of learning how to shift between the physical world and the non physical world, whereas as prior to this connection, we solely relied on the physical world for information.

We lie as humans, we lie to ourselves, to each other and the Most High, but we cannot lie within our spirit, our spirit is transparent and reveals all truths. This bond, if closely paid attention to will provide you with all the information you need to evolve on your path and in your connection with your mate.

The haunting is simply energy activation from one or both mates, or from your nonphysical guides alerting you that information is coming down the pike for you to pay attention to. It does not care if it’s the middle of a good ass dream, or if you are at work, or driving your car. Its concern is that you first acknowledge that it is there, and for you to get the messages that it is sending you.

This feeling is especially difficult for mates who are apart or in denial of the connection. GOOD! This pulling is doing its job if you are annoyed at its beckoning. Because when feelings of anger, annoyance or frustration come up within you, it is coming up so that you can work through these lower vibration and transform them into love. All things must be transformed into love, and once you fully get this message, then you will not be so stunned by the magic of the connection and you will being to see physical changes for the better with the connection.

What can you do? Realize that you are not crazy. Understand that you are learning to translate energy, and how to take whatever messages, feelings, thoughts, intuitive hits,etc.; that is coming your way and decode them for the evolution of your soul and the purification of your connection. You will be just fine, I love you all!