WHY SOUL MATES FIGHT

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Soul mates are now coming together at an increasing rate, like never before. This coming together is no fluke or accident, but it is due to the rising vibrational frequency of the planet that is forcing like frequency vibrational people, placing and things to gravitate towards each other. This gravitational pull is serving a higher purpose, and this purpose is to quicken humanity to a healthier and whole state. Humanity has done a ‘banged up’ job thus far, but the evolutionary process popularly coined ‘ascension’ is offering us another opportunity to align all things from the standpoint of a Higher consciousness perspective.

Soul mates play a pivotal role in the spiritual evolutionary process. We as soul mates hold the greatest potential to amass and disseminate spiritual light and to correct the dysfunctional inherited relationship template of previous generations. Soul mates, as they begin to connect with their higher self will create a healthier and wholesome template for relationships throughout humanity. This is a very tll order for some, but it is a process that has already been set into motion.

Traditional Relationship mode

The traditional relationship modality severely leaves out the high spiritual qualities such as unconditional love, compassion, sharing, cooperation, humility and reverence. It has mostly been an institution of control, manipulation and garnering material goods and external power. The traditional relationship has become a perpetuation of disparity and pain that has etched its way deep down into our cellular DNA and has imprinted itself in our emotional and ethereal bodies. The traditional relationship modality is the original weapon of mass destruction.

The Transitional Stages

Without a doubt, if you have come into the soul mate energy, be it that you have connected with your Twin Flame or your Vibrational Soul Mate, you have earned this connection. You have put in some amount of spiritual growth that has afforded you this highly Divine status, but this does not mean you can now rest on your laurels. This mean s you are now ready to focus ALL of your attention on correcting the impediments that have and will prevent you from connecting with your Higher Self, and reaching your highest potential as a spiritually evolving human being.

Salutation of the Spirit

So how does this connection with our soul mates evolve us spiritually? See, outside our conscious awareness, this beautiful, exciting man or woman slips into our frontal view. They make no loud announcement, but suddenly everything shift and comes alive inside of us. This overwhelming feel of emotions we term ‘love’ literally intoxicate us. This is what I term the ‘Salutations of the Spirit’. It’s a coming home of spiritual lovers, a recognition of each other at a Soul level.

The Acquaintance Period

What’s known to follow this Salutation is ‘the acquaintance’ period. You and your beloved begin to get to know each other, validate compatibility, and the strengthening of the ethereal bond. This period is absolutely euphoric, and feels like infatuation, but it’s is NOT, it is not merely an insatiable ‘liking’, it’s a deep soul satisfying spiritual love bond.

The bond accelerates as the days go by. The magnetic pull towards each other is extremely intense and mind boggling to most, because here they are in love with a complete stranger, that may live half way across the world or country, yet they are not a stranger, they are as familiar to you as an extension of your body. Now in comes the ‘struggle period’.

The Struggle Period

This is the period when things get really ugly! During this period, soul mates try their best to force their understanding of how a relationship is suppose to take form., but they find that they cannot apply the old relationship formats to a spiritual union. The old relationship format is incompatible to one of the spiritual. The old format demands that we apply low vibrational behaviors and thinking to MAKE a union take form, and the spiritual union excludes this application.

See, the soul mate energy deals only in love, truth and higher consciousness, and it repels any energetic pattern that does not include these higher qualities. So when soul mates force the old relationship application to the Higher Consciousness or Unconditional love application, you literally repel a each other. No force or manipulation tactics on the earthly or ascended realm will bring the two of you together as long as you continue to relate to one another from a low vibrational energy field.

The Soul Mate Shuffle

The soul mate energy, during the initial coming together, main concern is to force you to connect with your Higher Self, and to begin to emanate Higher spiritual qualities. This process is done energetically. If one or both soul mates are vibrating at a low energetic level, then you will repel each other. The love will still remain, the bond will still remain, but your frequency will not match. This infrequency serves a higher purpose. It forces each soul mate into their individual ‘corners’, so that they can focus on discovering, and correcting the emotional and behavior dysfunctional patterns. Say you are a male with issues of insecurity and self worth and your beloved is a smart, very beautiful and spiritually assured woman. Without her ‘doing’ anything ‘to’ you, just her presence will ignite your emotional and behavioral pattern. You may try to bully her or make her jealous by giving your attention to other women or activities. Your beloved will see right through this and will pull herself away. The intensity of the males lower vibrational tactics will hurt the both of them so deeply that they will need a break to understand what is happening. Now the similar pattern can be found in women as well, but the main idea of this is to show that the dance is one of energy and vibration. And it may take some time for each or both of the individuals to realize just how they manipulate, control, enable or bully in relationships. Once that realization happens, they must try to correct these impediment within self.

You would think, during this intense dance that the couples would split apart forever, never to see that ‘evil person’ again. But nope, the magnetic pull does not easily go away, and for good reason. The pull forces us to keep moving forward in our own spiritual development. Remember, the goal of this energy is to get you to connect with your Higher Self, and to emanate Higher Spiritual qualities. It can careless about how long it takes, our sexual yearns, or that our biological clock is ticking. All else outside of spiritual growth is secondary.

This shuffle will continue until each person does the work on healing and correcting individually. Each person’s issues vary, but they usually compliment the others issues. For example, you may be an award winning enabler, and you find that your beloved has issues of accountability and self worth. So therefore, just like a lock and key, when YOU work out your dysfunction, our beloved has no choice but to shift into the healthier energetic ‘lock’. BUT the problem comes in when we take the focus off of our growth and start analyzing and blaming our beloved as the one with the problem, therefore, back into the ‘corner’ we go until we get it right.

In Conclusion

The soul mate energy is here to dismantle the ridiculously painful and highly dramatic relationship patterns of the past. It’s spiritual in nature, so it CAN NOT be approached from a physical standpoint. This connection serves a Higher Purpose to heal you and heal humanity. It is your soul work, you did not stumble upon this, you signed up for this, or it would not be happening! So your best bet is to buckle down, cut the crap and get to work. As Spirit to reveal to you what you need healing the most, and the Law of Attraction will bring to you circumstances, and people to assist you, but they cannot do the work for you. TRUST THE PROCESS and GO WITH THE FLOW. The moment you resist, is the moment you allow unnecessary pain to seep into your union and stunt your development. Much love to all of us Soul Mates, and I am always here to clarify and assist you.

Your Friend,

Keesha

Keesha Michelle Washington is a Spiritual Life Guide that supports men and women in living in integrity with their spiritual values and principles. She also assists men and women in finding and maintaining spiritual relationships. She is available to answer questions about spiritual relationships and spiritual growth. You can learn more about her service work by visiting her websites.

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